The Seduction

You have a lover who is the person of your dreams. He or she comes out of the shower and opens the door to your bedroom. And you anticipate a wonderful night. And you wrap your arms around each other, kiss each other and suddenly you realize that something stops you. Your lover hasn’t shaved, smells like bathroom cleaner, keeps glancing at the clock. And you wonder whether this is foreplay or foregone. Where are the commonly accepted seduction, like candles, music, and desire? You used to have all these romantic things, dancing, staring into each other’s eyes and now there is nothing, but wet towel and no romance. What happened? If you experienced this, you should read the following. You will find out how you can seduce your lover using creative foreplay.

THE SEDUCTION
What do you think about when you hear the word foreplay? Is this just touching and kissing?

If these are the only things you think of, you are missing some fun about the sex. Actually, foreplay is the way to prepare you both for the sexual intercourse. It comprises everything which prepares you for sex, including sexual tension and romance, which may last for few hours before sex.

Enhancing the mood before you actually make your first move can make any sexual experience more thrilling. You can create a sexy atmosphere starting with the clothes you wear and up to the way bed looks. You can excite your partner and yourself by increasing sensuousness all day.

The intimacy that you create as part of this foreplay will help deepen the experience. Surely, sometimes people want to have quick sex with torn off clothes. But if you want to get really more excitement, you should create a sexy atmosphere and anticipate the sex. Imagine that you are a screenwriter and you are writing a romantic script which includes a lot of romantic feelings between the characters. To set the scene for sex, you need to tap into all the sexual tension that you have within you. Your goal is to set a scene so sexy that your “co-star” is leaping tall buildings to get to you. Unleash your creative, sexy spirit by taking charge of the scenery and creating the kinds of scenes that will please you and your lover.

Get into the Mood
It starts many hours before sex to anticipate it and to prepare for it. Early in the day, start thinking about your upcoming sexual experience, and share your thoughts with your lover. Try teasing him or her with some of the following ideas:

• The Seduction
• What Is Foreplay?
• Ten Ways for All-Day Foreplay
• Transform Your Home into a Love Nest
• Creating a Sensuous Feast
• Saying Sexy, Subtle Things
• Giving Affection
• A Kiss Is Just a Kiss…or Is It?
• Dressing to Turn on Your Lover
• Strip It, Strip It Good

2. Write a little note for your partner during lunch, like “I wish you could have me for lunch, but you know you'll have me tonight for dessert.”

3. Send several romantic e-mail messages under a mysterious screen name from a “secret admirer.” Then, in the last message of the day, reveal that they were from you.

4. Spray a little of your perfume or cologne on your lover's coat before he or she leaves the house in the morning, so your smell lingers all day.

5. Take a sexy picture of yourself and leave at the place where only your lover will find it.

6. Present a new pair of underwear for your partner in the morning before he or she gets dressed and ask to wear it today. 7. Send flowers to your lover at work.

8. Make an appointment to see your lover using a fake name. When his or her 3 o'clock appointment shows up, he or she will be surprised to find you instead of the fictitious “Mr. Smith.”

9. During the day try to get into your lover’s car and leave a note there, like “The sooner you get home, the faster you will feel my lips on you.”

10. Instead of greeting him or her at the door after work, leave a trail of rose petals starting at the front door and leading to the bedroom where you are waiting.

All these will help you to prepare your partner to the sex. Try to do at least two of these foreplay ideas one day and watch the results. The more you try to seduce your lover, the more tension you will release. In addition to building sexual tension, by seducing your lover you are becoming sexier. Many people worry that they're not sexy or that they don't have sex appeal. In fact, all you really need to do is act excited about the fact that you hope to be having sex later. Your excitement is sure to pique your
lover's interest and you'll come across as sexy.