Spice of Sex

ALL THE RIGHT MOVES
It is not a secret that with the course of time when you have one and the same partner, sex seems to be rather monotonous. It is so because you know your partner very well already. Even though the parts of your bodies do not change and you have the same penis and your partner has the same breasts, there is something you can do to diversify your sex life. First of all, you should try new sexual positions. Even if you got used to your partner during many years, trying new positions can make you feel that you are having a new partner, because you are coming to each other from all new angles. As soon as you add some new positions to your repertoire, you can try modifying them, the way you push and move and every already known position will seem new to you.

Push It, Push It Real Good.
To change the familiar feeling of sex, you have to learn not just some new positions but also a different way to move during
intercourse. Here we give some examples how to change this known to you and your partner feeling:

• Change the depth of penetration. You can do it in two ways, either shallow a bit if you are used to penetrate deeply, or to go deep if you are used to the opposite.
  
  
• Change the speed or intensity of thrusting. If it is hard and fast that you usually move, try it different and in the opposite way.
  
  
• If your thrusting is normally like a “one-way only” sign just before orgasm, break that pattern. Thrust for a while, then stop and wait. Hold each other, kiss and touch, then go back to thrusting.
  
  
• Make the rhythm you move different. If you usually thrust in a rhythm that is “in-out, in-out, in-out” you can change that. Try two short thrusts in, then one long thrust in, then out. So it would be “in-in-innnn-out, in-in-innnn-out.” Try as many various rhythms as you can imagine.
  
  
• Instead of concentrating just on moving your groin part and butt (if it is the usual way for you), you can concentrate on some other parts of the body. Feel how the thrusting changes when you arch your back. Or when you put your arms up over your head.

BODY DOUBLE
There are also possibilities of physical changes to the body. And this is not concerning seeing the doctor, it is of natural kind! One of the possibilities is to put on or off some weight. If you have already thought about diet or doing exercises, you can start from today. We bet that sex will feel different when you become thinner or build some muscles. You will even move differently during the intercourse. And vice versa, if you are a little skinny now, try to gain some weight to feel the difference. There can be some other changes. For example, you can make a new haircut in every possible place! With the help of this you will look and even feel different. You know that it is the time for changes. Of course, you may not want to change your hair completely. We can help here too! You can try a new wig thus letting your partner think that he or she is having sex with a new person. Also, add some wild things to your sex life, something like few toys to play with during the sex, they will surely give some not-so-subtle changes.

Women can buy silicone implants which you put into your bra and not into your body. Usually, they are in many department stores at the bra department. You can also try buying a new bra two sizes bigger than you usually buy and when you fill it with implants, it will look different. During the sex when you are still in the bra and your partner touches them, it looks almost natural and real. Men can go to the sex shop and buy some sex toys, like “penis extension” and change your sex life a bit. And what is more, you have the choice here. There are several kinds. First of all, it is a big, hollowed-out dildo that you put your penis inside before the intercourse. But here we should say that surely women will feel the size difference, but since it is thick you probably will not feel anything during sex. Another thing to choose from looks like a thick, long condom. They can be made of sensitive silicone and due to this you can feel something during the sex. But you should remember that these things are just for some changes and for those people who know each other well and just want to enjoy some new feelings. And they are not for strangers who simply want to trick each other!

PROP TO IT!
To begin with, we have to say that there are a lot of sex toys to play with during the sex! We have already described some toys you can use for sex. But also there are some other choices to choose between and get pleasure. And all these toys are very different, like temptatively and tasty, some others are slick and slippery, others being furry and fuzzy. You can choose whatever you like and start enjoying your new sex life.

Incredible Edibles
You can mix food and sex, taking from the fridge whatever you have there and try it on your partner. Almost any food can be used during the sex, but it is commonly accepted thing that some food is considered to be more erotic than other. To make sex very special, you can first pour some champagne on your partner and then make a toast of you two. Or spray whipped cream on your lover and then put a cherry on the top.

Pretend that your lover is your personal servant and feed each other with fruits. Try eating spaghetti from the opposite ends, teasing each other. It will be wonderfully sweet if you eat something chocolate and tasty. And vegetables can also take a great part in your sex life. For example, carrots and cucumbers can make penile substitutes to help you get deeper penetration, if it is what you are interested in. Remember: if you use a thumb and put a smooth condom on it, it may serve as a dildo.

Do not forget about the ice too, because it may be used for icy thrill and chill during sex. You can tease your lover by running ice along his chest, nipples, face, arms… if you want to get hazardous feelings, you may use popsicle as a dildo, but do not forget to put condom on it first. You will understand then the expression “deep freeze” means. But you should remember that you mustn’t leave it in for more than just few seconds because it is dangerous for sex organs and they can get freezer burn. Add zip and zest to your sex life with whatever food you want!

Wet and Wild
just for another kind of impressions you may use oils and lubricants. The hint how to achieve it is following. Lay a big piece of plastic (a shower curtain or tarp) on the floor and then cover your nude bodies in baby oil or massage oil. The sensation of rolling around together covered in slippery, sexy oil will be amazing. The only problem here is that you cannot use latex condoms if you are using petroleum-based oil. It will cause the latex to break, rendering it ineffective in the prevention of STDs and pregnancy. So this game is just intended for two people to roll around together, and do some slippery heavy petting. If you do want to have fun with lube during sex, you can use water-based lubricants. They are much helpful for the mutual masturbation too. Among water-based lubricants we may find: Wet, Astroglide, Aqualube, Probe, K-Y Liquid (not K-Y Jelly. They are specially made for sex-plays and they can last as long as you want them to. So, what is the best to choose? It depends on you and your preferences. To choose one best suitable for you and your partner, there are special offers at the sex stores. They sell trial-size bottles of lubricants and you have an opportunity to try them all and to choose the best for you!

Paint-by-Touch
Artists have always liked to exhibit nudes. And you also can be an artist and paint nudes yourself. All you need is just go to specialized shops which sell water-soluble paints you can supply safely and very effectively to the body of your partner. You can paint whatever you want, like some teasing inscriptions on the genitals of your lover’s body (‘enter here’, for example). You can draw a very erotic and sensitive picture. First you may stress the attention on the best parts of your lover’s body or paint him or her all and then you will be enjoying hot shower together.

Soft Touches and Tickles
Stroking something soft and sensual all over your lover's body can be a real turn on. Try a piece of velvet or fur (fake fur works just as well and can keep politics out of the bedroom). Tickle your lover with a feather, or two feathers, or with a lot of feathers. If you have long hair, you can slowly drag the ends of your hair across your lover's back for a similar sensation. Fuzzy touches and tickles will add new sensations to your lovemaking, and might make you both feel amazingly turned on.